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The Unsellable Customer

October 1, 2012  |  Posted by Doc Robyn |  4 Comments

There is a segment of your market you are missing.  Loyal customers who would be happy to do business with you if only you could let them know who you are and you are trust worthy.  The problem, they are unsellable.  If you can tap this market, they will be your best non-sales people because they share who they trust.

This is a first-hand account from a self-admitted unsellable customer:

I really dislike sales people.  If what you have requires selling, I don’t need it.  If I do need it, I really, really wish I didn’t (I am thinking about my last car buying experience).

Please don’t hawk at me.  If your brochure is covered in large print, bright colors and exclamation points I am going to wonder what you are trying to hide.  Yelling at me from a trade booth or doorway is a sure way to make me run away.

Complementing me is going to make me suspect.  Why are you trying to butter me up?

If I am in your store or booth and you follow me around trying to sell me stuff I will be polite for awhile.  If I have said no a couple of times and am not asking questions, let me know you are available to help me if I need it and go away.  If you miss the cues that I am not interested I will start to feel trapped and have been known to be very rude in order to escape.

Fear tactics, pressure sales, telling me I am wasting money with your competitor, or freebies that aren’t free will get you black listed.

Spam makes me crazier than it does other people.  If you send so many tweets that your picture fills my feed I will scroll past all of them.  Do it often and I will stop following you.  I am even less tolerant of spam-y email.

If you say you are going to do something and you don’t, I likely won’t ask about it or complain.  I will just take my business elsewhere.”

Doc Robyn:  Not surprisingly, all the regular sales methods don’t work for you.  How would you like to learn about new products or services?

Have a way for me to find and learn about you in an online search.  If I reach out to you or meet you at an event and express an interest in your product or service, give me useful information that will help me make a decision.  Ask me questions about what I need or want and then tell me how you can help me.  I have to see for myself that what you have is something I need.

Please treat me with respect.  I don’t know the things you know, hence I am asking.  There is no doubt there are subjects on which I could talk circles around you too.  If you talk over my head or are condescending I will see if your competitor is any nicer.

If things get awkward, let me walk away.  Even if you manage to pressure me into buying something I will bad-mouth you to anyone who will listen. That goes double if you make it difficult or impossible for me to return something.

If I call, answer the phone (or at least call me back).  If I email you, respond.  If I say I am looking for someone to do what you do and give you my email or phone number, follow up with me.  I like websites with an e-chat option.  I can ask what I want, say thank you and be done.  No phone trees, annoying hold music or up-selling.

If I walk in wanting to buy something, sell it to me!  Don’t try to up-sell me.  I will walk out with nothing.

I like being able to browse in private.  If I look like I am looking for someone to help me, I am.  If I don’t, please only offer once.  Catalogs, books of options and websites with descriptions that I can look through at my leisure are wonderful for me.

If I believe I am getting a good product or service at a fair price and you are respectful to me, I will forgive a lot of mistakes.  It is easier than trying to find someone new.

The best way to sell to me is by having someone I know and trust recommend you.  Treat all of your customers well; you never know who my friends are.”

There you have it, straight from the customer’s mouth.  Unsellable customers need products and services too.  How do you find and sell to them?

Dr. Robyn Odegaard (aka Doc Robyn) is a nationally known speaker, writer, and consultant.  She has a doctorate in psychology and is CEO of Champion Performance Development, an organization that enables her to combine her skills in executive coaching, organizational development, sports psychology, and public speaking to show her clients how they can achieve success in every aspect of their lives.  Doc Robyn founded the Stop The Drama! Campaign, authored the book Stop The Drama!, and speaks at high schools and colleges, instilling in students the same skills that bring success to her business clients.  An avid supporter of people who strive to attain a high level of performance in their personal and business lives, Doc Robyn lives by the motto, “Worst case, I want to be neutral to everyone I meet. My goal is to make a positive difference.”

Is Email Making Us Lazy?

January 23, 2012  |  Posted by Doc Robyn |  No Comments

If you are like me, and pretty much everyone I know, you get A LOT of email.  You have at least a work account, a personal account (or two), and a junk email account.  I have no doubt you receive emails in all of them that make you wonder, “Why am I getting this?”

That question becomes very prevalent after I speak at an event.  It is common for attendees to pick up my business card and to add me to their list.  I don’t get so much as a “hey, it was great to hear you speak”.  I just start receiving newsletters and mass emails from them hawking their services.

I always feel a little awkward about these emails.  One of the things I teach my clients to do is ‘unsubscribe’ from any lists that aren’t beneficial to them to limit the amount of mail they receive.  While, I am always thrilled to be in contact with participants, and I certainly don’t want to offend anyone by saying “take me off of your list”, it isn’t really me that is on their list so much as just some email address on a card they picked up.

I can usually tell what event they attended by the service they are offering.  I have wondered on and off if I should make an announcement before each talk along the lines of “It is great to be here and to talk to your group.  Please be aware that I do not need the services of 100 dog groomers so please don’t pick up my business card just to add me to your list”.

I realize that sounds silly and of course I would never do it.  But you see my point.  If that is the shotgun approach they are using with all their potential clients, how likely are they to get a response?  When did we become so lazy about our interaction with people who could potentially pay us money that hearing them speak or meeting them at an event was an invitation to send an email that provides them with no value?

This is what I would like instead – If we exchange business cards, email me personally (or respond to the email I send you).  Let’s ‘chat’ about what we do.  If you are into salt water fish tanks and I am in the market for one, I have no doubt it will come up.  Tell me about the newsletter you put out and all the great information you provide about the latest in salt water fish and equipment.  If I want to know about that stuff I am going to ask to be added to your list.  If I don’t and you send me the new regulations for importing decorative fish, you will likely get a “please remove me from your list” email.

Don’t get me wrong.  There are lists I love.  They give me information I need or want: how to get publicity, my local volleyball and ballroom dance groups, upcoming coaching events, etc.  When it is a list I want to be on, I am more likely to read and use the information provided.  If it is not, it might get the momentary “do I need this?” look before being deleted.  Don’t let that happen to your marketing emails.

What do you think? Has email made us lazy about getting to know potential clients and marketing to them?  Or do you think the shotgun approach of just add every email you can get your hands on and see who falls in your lap works?  I am very interested in your experience on both sides of this issue.

It should be noted that I do collect business cards at events by giving away coaching time and books.  However, I do NOT add people to my list unless they ask to be added by making a note of it on the back of their card.  Is my list smaller then it could be? Sure.  Do I think I have a better quality list?  Absolutely.